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Betrayed Broken & Blackmailed Part II
Those of us whose hearts have
been broken by people we thought we could trust, know that life can be pretty
bitter after coming out of a heartbreaking situation. We know what it feels
like to not want to get out of bed, and we know what it feels like to not want
to feel anymore because it seems to us in the moment that our feelings have
done us no good. Three months later just when Kesia had begun to move on with
her life, and pick up the broken pieces of her heart and soul, she answered one
of many phone calls from you’ve guessed it, Daryl. What did he have to say
after all that happened, you wouldn’t believe it if I told you. Betrayed Broken & Blackmailed Part II (see the archives box at the bottom of the page for part I)
Kesia – So Three months later after he’s been calling me trying to
see if we can work things out, he has the nerve to be frustrated with me as if
I did something wrong. Anyway he told me that he lost his job, he’s wondering
if I could help him out.
Akil – What makes him think that he could make such a request?
Kesia – I don’t know but I told him “Hells no, I’m not helping
you”, and he said “well if you don’t I can’t guarantee that the tapes and
pictures I have of you will remain in my private collection”
Akil – What tapes and pictures is he talking about?
Kesia – Well (deep breath) back when things where good between us
he convinced me to let him tape us having sex. It was strange at first but then
it became a part of our sex lives, a part that I now regret.
Akil – If this was a part of your sex lives then there must be
quite a few tapes and pictures.
Kesia – (Head hung low) Yes
Akil – Kesia for those of us who don’t understand why people allow
themselves to be photographed and filmed in this way. What if any thing can you
say to help us understand why?
Kesia – (tears in her eyes) I think I did it because I lost my
sense of judgment, and I lost my sense of judgment because I lost myself in what I thought was a
loving relationship.
Akil – A loving relationship should never cause one to lose
themselves. It should in fact help you become clearer about who you are,
because that’s what real love does.
Kesia – I trusted him because I loved him and at the time I figured
it was just something he enjoyed doing because he is a photographer.
Akil – It seems to me like you trusted and loved him more then you
did yourself. So what ended up happening?
Kesia – I agreed to help him until he got a job but that was six
months ago.
Akil – How much money have you given him so far?
Kesia – I’m embarrassed to say?
Akil – How much Kesia?
Kesia – Around $5000 dollars
Akil – What! You’re not helping him out sounds to me like he has
made you his personal bank account!!! You can’t keep doing this.
Kesia – I thought of doing lots of things to him, but I am so
stressed out I don’t know what to do.
Akil – The way I see it is you are going to have to do one or two
things. You either just tell him to go screw himself, and let him do what he
wants with the tapes and pictures, while letting your friends and family know
what is going on before they hear about it on the street, or allow him to keep
milking you for every penny you got.
Kesia – I can’t do that. I can’t see my self telling my mother or
father about this, I would kill myself before I do that. Every time I think about
what I did on tape with him, I can’t allow people to see me like that. (Crying)
Akil – (Crying) I’m sorry, I’m really sorry that you are suffering
like this. I hope that you can see yourself beyond the young woman who made
this mistake one day, because the minute you are able to do that he will lose
the power he has over you. We make mistakes, but we don’t have to be the
mistakes we made. Thank you for talking to me Kesia, I wish you well.
We asked our readers if they
would ever consider taking pictures or filming themselves performing sexual
acts with their mate: 29% said yes you would, 38% said no they would not and
another 33% said they would consider it. I wonder what you feel now after reading
this story. If you have any advice for Kesia, she is looking forward to reading
your messages in the comment boxes below. Thank you.
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| Truth |
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I feel for you Kesia. I hope that everything works out for you because you sound like a good woman. What goes around comes around so dat N%*$a will get what comes to him. Keep ya head |
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| Sherri |
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I my self don't even know what to say about this situation, Its very very sad,I think you are gonna have to come to terms with just letting friends and family know whats going on girl. What other choice do you have? |
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| Mahdi |
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I not too familiar with what the law can do about this. But I was just wondering can't you report this. Can't you somehow tape a conversation between the two of you or something. I'm not sure if you have already tried it or not but that's the first thing I thought of. I feel for you |
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| Carey |
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My heart goes out to you, but I would like you to be true to yourself for regardless of how the end turns out you must live with yourself. Its better to deal with a thing now than later for time heal all wounds. One day you will look back at this silly mistake and laugh. There are people who have done worst than what you have done and did what they had to do to make things right and move on in life. So yes a lot of damage has been done but there is a decision or decisions to make so that you can keep on living a stress free life. Do what you have to do regardless and hold your head up and live. |
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| Wildkat |
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kesia should confide inher parents and take her power back. Your familyhas no choice than love you regardless of what happens |
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Kesia should get some male friends or relatives to give him an ol school beat down and whip his a$$ until he produces EVERYTHING. For some reason, I don't think too many people will mind if he "disappears" for a few days. And it's not like he's going to tell anybody. Especially if the beating was severe enough. No man wants to admit to that.
That's how my family would handle it. . . |
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